semalam yg down....

semalam masa g kursus mulanya mmg boring
sebab penerangan sahaja yg diberikan
tapi sesi petang menarik tetapi
telah membuat aku frust sebab
username aku telah di downgradekan
oleh norzuriana sendiri.
ini semua gegara gatai tangan \-padan muka
so sepanjang sesi itu aku hanya la melanguk sahaja
sgt la aku frust

Tetapi ada hikmahnya juga sebab
aku ada kenal beberapa org kat saner aku amik contact no
so bila aku ada problem leh tanya

berbalik pada kefrustan aku tu
bila balik ingat nak tukar gunting yg beli semlm
malangnya cina tua tu xmo kasi
dia kata da beli tak leh tukar
tipu punya cina...
angin tui sebab mahai nak mampos(bagi aku)

bila cam nie..
bikin akujadi malas nak continue project menjahit
padahal ada lagi 3helai kain kot
frust tui padahal target nak siapkan sepsg minggu ni
napaknya hampa lagi

kursus "joomlah" lagi

kali kedua g kursu joomlah
tapi kali ni bukan belajar joomla
cuma terima taklimat kemaskini laman web joomla
agak boring kursus kali ni sebab semuanya penerangan
so aku yg blur nie cuma dengar tak dengar jer
taklimat berkaitan standard web yg mereka nak

so hari seharian duk kat lab jer
boring jer.. ingat hari ni leh update web kolej
so kita tunggu sapai petang nie...

esok aku ada temuduga untuk rumah PPP - pegawaai pembangunan pelajar
lebih kurang cam warden la jaga student
bos aku ckp conpom dapat sebab yg suh mohon pun dia
aku tak beria nak sgt sbb byk yg aku pk kan
kalo dapat pun ok gak
satu pengalaman baru gak jadi warden nie
tanggungjawab tu yg buat aku pening sikit..
heheeh ee biasa la aku kan minah pening...

aku insan yg lemah

aku anoi
aku isteri kepada insan yg berhati lembut
tetapi aku mempunyai hati yg begitu kering dan busuk
aku seorang ibu
ibu kepada puteri2 yg comel
ibu yg impikan anaknya jadi qari atau qariah yg baik
tapi didikan yg aku terapkan tidak menuju impian
aku seorang anak
anak kepada ibu yg lemah dan baik hati
ibu aku seorang yg lemah bagi insan lain tetapi tidak bagi aku
byk yg ibu telah taburkan pada aku
tapi hingga kini setelah 30tahun
tidak langsung aku menabur bakti pada ibu
kasih ku pada ibu tidak terbalas lagi
aku seorang kawan dan sahabat kepada ramai insan
tapi aku tau aku bukan kawan / sahabat yg baik
sbb aku tidak memberki komitmen yg baik
aku kakak kepada adik
adik kepada yg mampu buat segalanya
adik yang baik hati dan besar hati mereka
aku cuba buat yg terbaik buat mereka
tapi masih gagal membimbing mereka
sedikit kecewa dalam kegagalan itu.

aku anoi, ina, yg tebaru zue
pelbagai nama yg aku guna dalam kehidupan
aku harap dengan pelbagai nama
mampu buat aku jadi manusia berguna
hasrat aku yg terdekat agar aku mampu bantu IBU
aku tak tahu berapa banyak masa yg ada buat IBU
aku harap aku dapat tunaikan sesuatu buat IBU
siang malam aku berdoa agar hasrat itu tercapai

salah siapa??

hubungan manusia begitu complicated..
walaupun dengan sesiapa adalah susah untuk kekalkan
keserasian, kemesraan dan sefahaman
begitula hubungan antara anak -ibu, isteri suami, kawan /sahabat

susahnyanya nak menjaga hati orang
susahnya nak mengelak dari lukakan hati orang
susahnya nak buat org faham yg kita sygkan dia
susahnya jadi manusia yg nk jaga hati org
tetapi senangnya org lukakan hati kita

ntah apa yg aku merepekkan
tapi kebelakangan ini
aku rasa payahnya nak jaga hati org
aku rasa menyampah untuk ambil hal org
aku rasa muak n fed up dgn kerenah org yg ntah apa2
aku rasa xsanggup nak layan kehendak mereka
sbb mereka cuma tahu masalah mereka
tapi tak pernah tanya apa masalah kita

kekadang rasa sia2 bantu mereka
sebab mereka tidak tahu niat baik kita
mereka tidak tahu apa niat kita
bagi mereka kalau kita mengiakan apa saja
maka kita sokong dia
kalu kita tidak mengiakan maka kita bukan sokong dia
maka salah kita ke kalau sokong dia buat keputusan salah??

terasa sungguh diri tidak jujur
pada diri sendiri dan org yg kita syg
ketahui lah manusia..
tidak semesti kita bangkang kita tidak syg
perlu ada sebab mengapa bangkang dan tidak setuju
fahamilah niat seseorang sblum menghukum
rugilah kita kerana BODOH SOMBONG

mmg kita boleh hidup sendiri
tapi betul ke kita mampu SENDIRIi dlm semua hal
jgn sombong dan bertindak melulu
kita hidup didunia hanyala sementara
aku perlukan ko dan pasti ko juga perlukan aku
oleh itu bertolak ansur la melayari kehidupan

AKU BUKAN MANUSIA YG BAIK
tapi aku cuba jadi yagng baik
maafkan la aku jika aku melukakan hati kalian
aku cuma pk yg terbaik mampu aku lakukan

Expressing Breastmilk - by hand

To express milk manually, gently massage to start the milk moving down the ducts. Work evenly around the breast, stroking repeatedly downward toward the areola.

Starting about halfway up the breast, run your thumb firmly down. As it reaches the edge of the areola, press in and up and the milk will squirt from the nipple. Repeat all the way around the breast.

Do not squeeze the nipple as this will close the ducts, nor continue expressing until you think the breast is empty. Stop when the milk starts coming in drips rather than jets.

sure ramai yg tak tahu camner nak buat manual
selalunya kita pam je
cam aku walaupun da 9bulan aku berkecimpung dunia bf
tetapi masih gagal aku buat manual
pernah sekali buat sebab tertinggal pam
tu pun dapat 2oz jer setelah perah kedua B***

tapi ada gak yg berjaya perah secara manual
hasil mereka pun lumayan jer
kalo da pandai manual xde la melabur cam aku sapai 2k
ok semoga korang berjaya yer

songs to sing

1. Are You Sleeping?

Nursery Sing Along - B-I-N-G-O

Nursery Sing Along - Baa Baa Blacksheep

Nursery Sing Along - The Alphabet Song

Nursery Sing Along - Yankee Doodle

Nursery Sing Along - Old MacDonald's Farm

Toddler Tantrums

Toddler tantrums are a normal occurrence. Of course, some tantrums will be more severe than others, and some children resort to tantrums more often than others. Once you begin to understand why your child is having these tantrums, however, you may be able to ward off some of them, and you may also discover how to help your toddler control himself.

What Causes Toddler Tantrums?

The answer is very simple. They can't express themselves like older children and adults do, and they become very frustrated. So, they throw a fit! It's the only behavior they understand that seems to get some type of result and attention, even if it is negative. Your toddler wants to be able to do what his older siblings and you do. He becomes very frustrated when he isn't allowed to do this, or when he simply isn't capable of doing it.

How Should You Respond to Your Child?

our first instinct may be to lose your temper and use force to make your toddler behave. Think for a minute about what you are teaching her. Are you showing her how to control her emotions? If you lose your cool, how can you expect her to keep control of hers? If you begin to scream, she'll only scream louder to be heard over you. Absolutely nothing is accomplished, and the pattern of behavior remains unbroken and unchanged. Keep the following points in mind when you need to respond to your child's tantrum.

Remain calm.
Speak in a slow, calm, but firm tone of voice.
Kneel down so that you are on the same level as your toddler. You won't be as intimidating in this position, and you can make eye contact easier.
Ignore whining and small toddler tantrums if possible. If you don't give your child attention, he may cease his tantrums.
Be consistent. You and your partner need to be consistent in your responses and discipline methods.
Be loving. Your toddler looks to you for love and security. You can show him both while still expecting good behavior.
Don't give in to a tantrum. Sure, sometimes it might be easier to simply give in, but your toddler will learn very quickly that his tantrums will get the results he wants. Don't do it!
Remove your child from an unsafe situation. If your child is in danger of hurting himself or someone else, you can pick him up and remove him from the situation.
Use time outs. Sometimes it is easier for a child to calm down if he is given specific limits. Timeouts can give you and your child a necessary break from the emotional outbursts.

How Can You Prevent Toddler Tantrums from Occurring?

Obviously, you will not be able to ward off all toddler tantrums. However, there are some things you can do to reduce the number of toddler tantrums your child might have.

Do away with temptations. If you know your child is going to want a big piece of cake when she sees you or a sibling eating it, then don't eat it in front of her unless you plan on giving her some, too. Use common sense.
Stick to a schedule. Often, toddlers have tantrums because they are tired and hungry. Try to plan outings and other events around rest times and meals. Be sure you bring plenty of nutritious snacks with you.
Use distractions when you can. If you see a potential problem arising, look for ways to distract your toddler.
Use positive reinforcement. When you see your toddler modeling good behavior, praise him! If he stops throwing a tantrum quickly in response to you, compliment him on his behavior.

Remember, as your toddler matures and becomes more adept at vocalizing his wants and needs, his tantrums will fade. Until then, do your best to avoid tough situations and treat your toddler in a calm, firm, and loving manner.

Potty Training Problems

comelkan gamabr nie
bila la zulaika nak pandai cam nie
zulaika da tahu bila dia nak poo
sekarang nie pun kalo nak poo dia akan info
especialy kalo dia poo yg keras
kekadg siap nangis

sebenarnya aku rasa zulaika da bersedia
cuma IBU N AYAH yg tak bersedia
almaklum kerja mencuci tu yg tak sanggup
apatah lagi poo zulaika amat la BUSUK
tak dapat bayangkan kalo poo berselerak atas lantai
tak sanggup ooooo

sebab aku selalu gak cuci pooo kat lantai nie
esh esh
kena study camner nak ajar nie...

25 WAYS TO TALK SO YOUR CHILDREN WILL LISTEN

A major part of discipline is learning how to talk with children. The way you talk to your child teaches him how to talk to others. Here are some talking tips we have learned with our children:

1. Connect before you direct

Before giving your child directions, squat to your child's eye level and engage your child in eye-to-eye contact to get his attention. Teach him how to focus: "Mary, I need your eyes." "Billy, I need your ears." Offer the same body language when listening to the child. Be sure not to make your eye contact so intense that your child perceives it as controlling rather than connecting.

2. Address the child

Open your request with the child's name, "Lauren, will you please..."

3. Stay brief

We use the one-sentence rule: Put the main directive in the opening sentence. The longer you ramble, the more likely your child is to become parent-deaf. Too much talking is a very common mistake when dialoging about an issue. It gives the child the feeling that you're not quite sure what it is you want to say. If she can keep you talking she can get you sidetracked.

4. Stay simple

Use short sentences with one-syllable words. Listen to how kids communicate with each other and take note. When your child shows that glazed, disinterested look, you are no longer being understood.

5. Ask your child to repeat the request back to you

If he can't, it's too long or too complicated.

6. Make an offer the child can't refuse

You can reason with a two or three-year-old, especially to avoid power struggles. "Get dressed so you can go outside and play." Offer a reason for your request that is to the child's advantage, and one that is difficult to refuse. This gives her a reason to move out of her power position and do what you want her to do.

7. Be positive

Instead of "no running," try: "Inside we walk, outside you may run."

8. Begin your directives with "I want."

Instead of "Get down," say "I want you to get down." Instead of "Let Becky have a turn," say "I want you to let Becky have a turn now." This works well with children who want to please but don't like being ordered. By saying "I want," you give a reason for compliance rather than just an order.

9. "When...then."

"When you get your teeth brushed, then we'll begin the story." "When your work is finished, then you can watch TV." "When," which implies that you expect obedience, works better than "if," which suggests that the child has a choice when you don't mean to give him one.

10. Legs first, mouth second

Instead of hollering, "Turn off the TV, it's time for dinner!" walk into the room where your child is watching TV, join in with your child's interests for a few minutes, and then, during a commercial break, have your child turn off the TV. Going to your child conveys you're serious about your request; otherwise children interpret this as a mere preference.

11. Give choices

"Do you want to put your pajamas on or brush your teeth first?" "Red shirt or blue one?"

12. Speak developmentally correctly

The younger the child, the shorter and simpler your directives should be. Consider your child's level of understanding. For example, a common error parents make is asking a three-year- old, "Why did you do that?" Most adults can't always answer that question about their behavior. Try instead, "Let's talk about what you did."

13. Speak socially correctly

Even a two-year-old can learn "please." Expect your child to be polite. Children shouldn't feel manners are optional. Speak to your children the way you want them to speak to you.

14. Speak psychologically correctly

Threats and judgmental openers are likely to put the child on the defensive. "You" messages make a child clam up. "I" messages are non-accusing. Instead of "You'd better do this..." or "You must...," try "I would like...." or "I am so pleased when you..." Instead of "You need to clear the table," say "I need you to clear the table." Don't ask a leading question when a negative answer is not an option. "Will you please pick up your coat?" Just say, "Pick up your coat, please."

15. Write it

Reminders can evolve into nagging so easily, especially for preteens who feel being told things puts them in the slave category. Without saying a word you can communicate anything you need said. Talk with a pad and pencil. Leave humorous notes for your child. Then sit back and watch it happen.

16. Talk the child down

The louder your child yells, the softer you respond. Let your child ventilate while you interject timely comments: "I understand" or "Can I help?" Sometimes just having a caring listener available will wind down the tantrum. If you come in at his level, you have two tantrums to deal with. Be the adult for him.

17. Settle the listener

Before giving your directive, restore emotional equilibrium, otherwise you are wasting your time. Nothing sinks in when a child is an emotional wreck.

18. Replay your message

Toddlers need to be told a thousand times. Children under two have difficulty internalizing your directives. Most three- year-olds begin to internalize directives so that what you ask begins to sink in. Do less and less repeating as your child gets older. Preteens regard repetition as nagging.

19. Let your child complete the thought

Instead of "Don't leave your mess piled up," try: "Matthew, think of where you want to store your soccer stuff." Letting the child fill in the blanks is more likely to create a lasting lesson.

20. Use rhyme rules.

"If you hit, you must sit." Get your child to repeat them.

21. Give likable alternatives

You can't go by yourself to the park; but you can play in the neighbor's yard.

22. Give advance notice

"We are leaving soon. Say bye-bye to the toys, bye-bye to the girls…"

23. Open up a closed child

Carefully chosen phrases open up closed little minds and mouths. Stick to topics that you know your child gets excited about. Ask questions that require more than a yes or no. Stick to specifics. Instead of "Did you have a good day at school today?" try "What is the most fun thing you did today?"

24. Use "When you…I feel…because…"

When you run away from mommy in the store I feel worried because you might get lost.

25. Close the discussion

If a matter is really closed to discussion, say so. "I'm not changing my mind about this. Sorry." You'll save wear and tear on both you and your child. Reserve your "I mean business" tone of voice for when you do.

breastfeeding in public

hari ini aku byk keje
tapi keje aku tak boleh nak proceed sbb
maklumat yg aku nak tak dapat
org yg ada maklumat tak dtg
so aku kena pending keje aku

hari ini aku terjumpa video yg best
camner nak bf depan public
video ni bagus...
so kita tonton sama yer
kat video breastfeeding in public
semoga kita sesama leh tambah skill yek

ketidakprofesionalism terjelas

hari ini aku mulakan dgn niat yg baik
aku bangun awal n makan awal hehehe
tetapi bila aku masuk morning briefing...
semua yang aku plan... hancur

aku rasa tidak puas hati
walaupun bukan berkaitan dgn aku tapi
aku rasa perkara ini boleh diubah
boleh diperbaiki

bos aku telah menunjukkan sikap ketidakadilan
dimana dia sgt2 menunjukkan sifat anti terhadap seorg staf
dan waktu yg sama membela sesorg yg bukan haknya
aku kecewa sgt dgn cara dia
dia tidak patut menunjukkan sifat berat sebelah itu

bagi aku jika nak tegur top mgt
perlu ada meeting antara top mgt
bukan tegur depan staf
dan tidak perlu tunjuk ketidaksukaan..

aku n bersuara sgt tp aku
budak baru
aku kena pk pjg sbb aku tak kebal
aku takut effect pada aku
aku malas nak citer aaa
benci la keje cam nie
da la tak profesional dan tak pandai
gaji la ciput
apa daaa...

anoi bersyukur dgn apa yg ko ada k
ko buat keje dgn ikhlas..

7/3/2010-sumaiyah demam pertama kali dlm tahun 2010

saja nak buat aknowledge abd reminder
dalam tahun ni da bulan 3 baru sumaiyah sakit
tu pun selsema n batuk
mlm td baru terasa badan dia panas
sian dia sebab tido tak lena

aku nak cuti ari ni tapi
takut jadi isu kat opis
la ni kalo cuti EL sure kecoh
so aku malas nak buat isu lak
so better aku g keje dan kuar awal
boleh la aku jaga anak aku

hmm...
esok pun nak cuti gak sebab
nak bawa bapak aku g ospital la
sian kat mak n bapak aku
bapak aku tgh menanggung sakit
mak aku pulak pening n xsapai ati tgk bapak aku sakit
mak nk sangat bawa g ospital swasta..
bagus sgt ker ospital swasta nie???

kalo aku byk duit boleh la
mak aku sibuk nak kuar duit
kalo dia byk duit sure dia takde la keje giler
aku tgk hari2 dia keje
tiap kali cuti amik OT padahal dia pun bukan sihat sgt
kekdg rasa sgt aku gagal jd anak yg baik
aku gagal bela idup mak aku
sian mak aku

so esok aku nak bawa juga g ospital sbb
aku ingat akak aku ikhlas
kalo tgk cara dia cam kena paksa lak pulak
boleh ker da ada appoitment, dia nak balik la
leh lak dia nak postponed date
siot tui laaaaaaaaaa

ayah ku sakit

salam,
hari ni aktiviti g kenduri sue kat sirim
aku g da lewat sbb saje nak g lewat pun
kalo g awal tak jupe pengantin so decide g lewat jer
kat saner mkn dulu baru cari pengantin ..
kat saner jumpa pgeout, shira, rudi n oja
dapat la berborak juga...
dapat gambar dgn sue n amad atas pelamin.

hmm
balik cam biasa je
n hied sempat dtg umah sbb ada hal jap
xsapai 1/2 jam pun sbb dia hal.
dapat gak dia merasa ole2 dr terengganu

isu yg nak aku coret kat sini
mak tipon citer nak bawa abah g ospital swasta
sbb abah da tak tahan lagi
kalo leh dia nak uregent operate
aku larang sebab aku takut procedure cam ospital gomen tp
bil bercanak - canak
hmmm... nanti sama jer
so apa patut aku patut buat

aku dgn adik aku bkn surrender
tp nak tgk apa tindakan susulan kakak2 aku tue
gaya can concern n derang n handle
tp last minute cam nie
derang nak ikut kehendak derang lak
kesian bapak aku la
apa la aku mengarut nie
aku cam xde idea nk tulis..
TO BE CONTINUED

pam dalam tandas

tetiba je aku nak buat entry nie..
aku baru je baca kat forum susuibu.com yg citer pasal breastfeeding kat nona last week
dlm forum tu ada hamba Allah yang cakap xsetuju sbb pam kat dalam tandas
terkena lak kat diri aku
aku kalo g kursus sure pam n pasti pam kat dlm tandas
sebab xde option lain pun.. itu tempat yag ada n selesa ( tgk tempat)

masa kau pakai spectra lagi la sedih + segan
mana taknya.. aku pam kat depan pintu toilet
sbb kat situ je ada soket (setelah aku cabut plug handryer)
kat situla aku dgn berdiri n beraksi
sepanjang aku mengepam kalo 10org masuk 10org la dok memandang
malu + segan masa tu tak tau la nak cakap
hanya ALLAH yang tahu isi hati aku...

disebabkan kes tu la aku nekad beli freestyle
n bila da ada freestyle pun TOILET tetap jadi pilihan mengepam
sebab mana ada space atau ruang nak buat projek

so bkn tempat nak jd isu xmo mengepam
aku asal line clear je sure aku mengepam
tapi setakat ni tempat kursus yg aku g toilet masih dikatakan bersih
ada gak aku pernah dapat toilet kotor
cth masa kat kenyir ada satu public toilet
mmg kotor la dan masa tu masa da sapai
aku dgn selamba n buat muka kesian kat promoter kedai souvenir minta tupe kat stor

setelah aku jd pengepam selama 8bulan ++ nie
aku rasa ALLAH sentiasa permudahkan perjalanan mengepam aku
setiapa kali aku outstation kat luar tempat yg aku g tue
alhamdullilah da ada peti ais secara kebetulan (rzki DARI ALLAH)
untuk simpanan EBM AKU
so aku bersyukur sgt niat ikhlas aku sentiasa dipermudahkan

walaupun aku kena pam kat tandas
tapi takat nie aku masih lagi diketemukan dengan toilet yg bersih
keadaan aku xde la yang teruk
cuma yg terdesak bila aku buzy je
masa tu aku terlupa / terleka tanpa sedar untuk pam

cam tahun ni
aku da mula asyik terlari jadual pam
selalu aku leh 4kalipam
tapi tahun nie susahnya nak dapat 4kali pam
3kali pun da cukup baik da
cuak sgt sebab ada 1tahun 2bulan lagi untuk sapai kemercu tanda
aku perlu maintain pam kalo tak sure aku gagal
aku tak boleh gagal

aku harap aku terus kuat n dipermudahkan.. amin

tanpa handphone

sejak haandphone rosak
mmg malas nak update blog sebab
rasa cam tak menarik jer