semalam yg down....

semalam masa g kursus mulanya mmg boring
sebab penerangan sahaja yg diberikan
tapi sesi petang menarik tetapi
telah membuat aku frust sebab
username aku telah di downgradekan
oleh norzuriana sendiri.
ini semua gegara gatai tangan \-padan muka
so sepanjang sesi itu aku hanya la melanguk sahaja
sgt la aku frust

Tetapi ada hikmahnya juga sebab
aku ada kenal beberapa org kat saner aku amik contact no
so bila aku ada problem leh tanya

berbalik pada kefrustan aku tu
bila balik ingat nak tukar gunting yg beli semlm
malangnya cina tua tu xmo kasi
dia kata da beli tak leh tukar
tipu punya cina...
angin tui sebab mahai nak mampos(bagi aku)

bila cam nie..
bikin akujadi malas nak continue project menjahit
padahal ada lagi 3helai kain kot
frust tui padahal target nak siapkan sepsg minggu ni
napaknya hampa lagi

kursus "joomlah" lagi

kali kedua g kursu joomlah
tapi kali ni bukan belajar joomla
cuma terima taklimat kemaskini laman web joomla
agak boring kursus kali ni sebab semuanya penerangan
so aku yg blur nie cuma dengar tak dengar jer
taklimat berkaitan standard web yg mereka nak

so hari seharian duk kat lab jer
boring jer.. ingat hari ni leh update web kolej
so kita tunggu sapai petang nie...

esok aku ada temuduga untuk rumah PPP - pegawaai pembangunan pelajar
lebih kurang cam warden la jaga student
bos aku ckp conpom dapat sebab yg suh mohon pun dia
aku tak beria nak sgt sbb byk yg aku pk kan
kalo dapat pun ok gak
satu pengalaman baru gak jadi warden nie
tanggungjawab tu yg buat aku pening sikit..
heheeh ee biasa la aku kan minah pening...

aku insan yg lemah

aku anoi
aku isteri kepada insan yg berhati lembut
tetapi aku mempunyai hati yg begitu kering dan busuk
aku seorang ibu
ibu kepada puteri2 yg comel
ibu yg impikan anaknya jadi qari atau qariah yg baik
tapi didikan yg aku terapkan tidak menuju impian
aku seorang anak
anak kepada ibu yg lemah dan baik hati
ibu aku seorang yg lemah bagi insan lain tetapi tidak bagi aku
byk yg ibu telah taburkan pada aku
tapi hingga kini setelah 30tahun
tidak langsung aku menabur bakti pada ibu
kasih ku pada ibu tidak terbalas lagi
aku seorang kawan dan sahabat kepada ramai insan
tapi aku tau aku bukan kawan / sahabat yg baik
sbb aku tidak memberki komitmen yg baik
aku kakak kepada adik
adik kepada yg mampu buat segalanya
adik yang baik hati dan besar hati mereka
aku cuba buat yg terbaik buat mereka
tapi masih gagal membimbing mereka
sedikit kecewa dalam kegagalan itu.

aku anoi, ina, yg tebaru zue
pelbagai nama yg aku guna dalam kehidupan
aku harap dengan pelbagai nama
mampu buat aku jadi manusia berguna
hasrat aku yg terdekat agar aku mampu bantu IBU
aku tak tahu berapa banyak masa yg ada buat IBU
aku harap aku dapat tunaikan sesuatu buat IBU
siang malam aku berdoa agar hasrat itu tercapai

salah siapa??

hubungan manusia begitu complicated..
walaupun dengan sesiapa adalah susah untuk kekalkan
keserasian, kemesraan dan sefahaman
begitula hubungan antara anak -ibu, isteri suami, kawan /sahabat

susahnyanya nak menjaga hati orang
susahnya nak mengelak dari lukakan hati orang
susahnya nak buat org faham yg kita sygkan dia
susahnya jadi manusia yg nk jaga hati org
tetapi senangnya org lukakan hati kita

ntah apa yg aku merepekkan
tapi kebelakangan ini
aku rasa payahnya nak jaga hati org
aku rasa menyampah untuk ambil hal org
aku rasa muak n fed up dgn kerenah org yg ntah apa2
aku rasa xsanggup nak layan kehendak mereka
sbb mereka cuma tahu masalah mereka
tapi tak pernah tanya apa masalah kita

kekadang rasa sia2 bantu mereka
sebab mereka tidak tahu niat baik kita
mereka tidak tahu apa niat kita
bagi mereka kalau kita mengiakan apa saja
maka kita sokong dia
kalu kita tidak mengiakan maka kita bukan sokong dia
maka salah kita ke kalau sokong dia buat keputusan salah??

terasa sungguh diri tidak jujur
pada diri sendiri dan org yg kita syg
ketahui lah manusia..
tidak semesti kita bangkang kita tidak syg
perlu ada sebab mengapa bangkang dan tidak setuju
fahamilah niat seseorang sblum menghukum
rugilah kita kerana BODOH SOMBONG

mmg kita boleh hidup sendiri
tapi betul ke kita mampu SENDIRIi dlm semua hal
jgn sombong dan bertindak melulu
kita hidup didunia hanyala sementara
aku perlukan ko dan pasti ko juga perlukan aku
oleh itu bertolak ansur la melayari kehidupan

AKU BUKAN MANUSIA YG BAIK
tapi aku cuba jadi yagng baik
maafkan la aku jika aku melukakan hati kalian
aku cuma pk yg terbaik mampu aku lakukan

Expressing Breastmilk - by hand




To express milk manually, gently massage to start the milk moving down the ducts. Work evenly around the breast, stroking repeatedly downward toward the areola. Starting about halfway up the breast, run your thumb firmly down. As it reaches the edge of the areola, press in and up and the milk will squirt from the nipple. Repeat all the way around the breast. Do not squeeze the nipple as this will close the ducts, nor continue expressing until you think the breast is empty. Stop when the milk starts coming in drips rather than jets.










sure ramai yg tak tahu camner nak buat manual
selalunya kita pam je
cam aku walaupun da 9bulan aku berkecimpung dunia bf
tetapi masih gagal aku buat manual
pernah sekali buat sebab tertinggal pam
tu pun dapat 2oz jer setelah perah kedua B***

tapi ada gak yg berjaya perah secara manual
hasil mereka pun lumayan jer
kalo da pandai manual xde la melabur cam aku sapai 2k
ok semoga korang berjaya yer

songs to sing

1. Are You Sleeping?


Nursery Sing Along - B-I-N-G-O


Nursery Sing Along - Baa Baa Blacksheep


Nursery Sing Along - The Alphabet Song


Nursery Sing Along - Yankee Doodle


Nursery Sing Along - Old MacDonald's Farm

Toddler Tantrums

Toddler tantrums are a normal occurrence. Of course, some tantrums will be more severe than others, and some children resort to tantrums more often than others. Once you begin to understand why your child is having these tantrums, however, you may be able to ward off some of them, and you may also discover how to help your toddler control himself.

What Causes Toddler Tantrums?

The answer is very simple. They can't express themselves like older children and adults do, and they become very frustrated. So, they throw a fit! It's the only behavior they understand that seems to get some type of result and attention, even if it is negative. Your toddler wants to be able to do what his older siblings and you do. He becomes very frustrated when he isn't allowed to do this, or when he simply isn't capable of doing it.

How Should You Respond to Your Child?

our first instinct may be to lose your temper and use force to make your toddler behave. Think for a minute about what you are teaching her. Are you showing her how to control her emotions? If you lose your cool, how can you expect her to keep control of hers? If you begin to scream, she'll only scream louder to be heard over you. Absolutely nothing is accomplished, and the pattern of behavior remains unbroken and unchanged. Keep the following points in mind when you need to respond to your child's tantrum.
  1. Remain calm.
  2. Speak in a slow, calm, but firm tone of voice.
  3. Kneel down so that you are on the same level as your toddler. You won't be as intimidating in this position, and you can make eye contact easier.
  4. Ignore whining and small toddler tantrums if possible. If you don't give your child attention, he may cease his tantrums.
  5. Be consistent. You and your partner need to be consistent in your responses and discipline methods.
  6. Be loving. Your toddler looks to you for love and security. You can show him both while still expecting good behavior.
  7. Don't give in to a tantrum. Sure, sometimes it might be easier to simply give in, but your toddler will learn very quickly that his tantrums will get the results he wants. Don't do it!
  8. Remove your child from an unsafe situation. If your child is in danger of hurting himself or someone else, you can pick him up and remove him from the situation.
  9. Use time outs. Sometimes it is easier for a child to calm down if he is given specific limits. Timeouts can give you and your child a necessary break from the emotional outbursts.

How Can You Prevent Toddler Tantrums from Occurring?


Obviously, you will not be able to ward off all toddler tantrums. However, there are some things you can do to reduce the number of toddler tantrums your child might have.

  1. Do away with temptations. If you know your child is going to want a big piece of cake when she sees you or a sibling eating it, then don't eat it in front of her unless you plan on giving her some, too. Use common sense.
  2. Stick to a schedule. Often, toddlers have tantrums because they are tired and hungry. Try to plan outings and other events around rest times and meals. Be sure you bring plenty of nutritious snacks with you.
  3. Use distractions when you can. If you see a potential problem arising, look for ways to distract your toddler.
  4. Use positive reinforcement. When you see your toddler modeling good behavior, praise him! If he stops throwing a tantrum quickly in response to you, compliment him on his behavior.

Remember, as your toddler matures and becomes more adept at vocalizing his wants and needs, his tantrums will fade. Until then, do your best to avoid tough situations and treat your toddler in a calm, firm, and loving manner.